| Weddings throughout the ages reflect
the changing times.
The first law that the People's Republic of China issued,
was the Marriage Law. In the law, which took effect on May
1, 1950, equality between the sexes, monogamy, freedom in
marriage and divorce are stipulated. It is praised as "an
epoch declaration on women's human rights."In the fifties,
although there were still many arranged marriages, the wedding
ceremony changed considerably in response to the new social
environment.
The 50s: Revolutionary and Simple Weddings
The
typical 50s wedding was full of revolutionary color. The fashionable
wedding outfit in cities was a cadre suit or Lenin jacket,
while mandarin jacket and qipao in rural areas continued to
prosper. New couples all wore bright red paper flowers pinned
to their clothes. The Party secretary, of the work unit where
the new couple was based, was usually invited to act as the
chief witness at a wedding ceremony. The bride, bridegroom,
matchmaker, chief witness and the new couple's parents all
sealed the marriage certificate. All the guests would then
gather together for a feast. The wedding gifts, apart from
the standard contribution of 5 Mao each, were usually pots,
washbasins, washboards and mirrors.
But there was usually no feast at the weddings of urban cadres
and staff members. In 1953, Hu Baisen, a soldier based in
Hohhot, Inner Mongolia, was preparing to get married on the
eve of Spring Festival. At that time, soldiers all ate in
large dining rooms, where food was provided free. Only a very
small personal allowance was given to each soldier. When the
wedding day arrived, the bride and groom were still wearing
their old army uniforms. Their wedding chamber was an office
of less than 10 square meters, provided for them by the unit,
which was furnished with two plank beds and some stools.
The only precious gift among the wedding gifts was a novel
sent by one of their old friends, How Is the Steel Refined,
which was a popular book at that time. The wedding ceremony
was held in the dinning hall of the unit and the unit's commander
was their chief witness. The guests were all made up of colleagues
who sat around eating "Happy-Sweets" and chatting.
The rural wedding ceremony also underwent changes during this
period. In 1959, in Xicheng Township, Dingxian County, Hebei
Province, when 25-year-old Liu Guochuan and 21-year-old Li
Enhui got married, the bridal sedan chair was changed to a
carriage. As a result of great economical difficulties, the
couple could not afford an extravagant wedding. They bought
a big bowl of Chinese cabbage soup, two steamed corn breads,
made some noodles and steamed buns, with the limited amount
of flour the groom's family still had. This simple meal served
as their wedding feast. Three days later, the newly-weds took
the train to Beijing, where they had a picture taken for less
than one yuan.
The 60s-70s: Political Weddings
Due to the "Cultural Revolution", weddings in the
mid-60s and 70s were full of political color. Wedding days
were usually chosen on holidays and ceremonies were simpler
than ever before.
In 1967, Zhong Miaoshen, working in Shenzhen, decided to hold
his wedding on May Day (May 1--International Labor Day). At
the marriage registration office, he and his fianc¦e
received a marriage certificate, which bore the sentence:
"The core of leadership leading our course is the Communist
Party of China and the theoretical basis guiding our ideology
is Marxism and Leninism."On the wedding day, the couple
received a dozen copies of the Three Selected Works of Mao
Zedong and five to six plaster statues of the late Chairman.
The walls of the wedding chamber were covered with portraits
of Mao and the character: (loyalty)
in bright red. On the picture frames their colleagues sent
them were the words: "To read Chairman Mao's books, listen
to his words and be Chairman Mao's good soldiers."Only
the characters (double
happiness) in front of the mosquito net was not related to
politics.
The wedding was serious and simple: songs sung in praise of
Mao, three bows taken before the portrait of Chairman Mao
and then a quotation from Chairman Mao read out. Finally the
bride and groom performed a dance to express their loyalty
to Mao, and gave account of what they had learned from Chairman
Mao's works. The wedding ended with the singing of a revolutionary
song.
On the wedding of Zhang Yanzheng and Zhu Jichang from the
countryside in Hebei's Huailai County, on October 26, 1969,
the bride was wearing a sweater she had knitted herself, with
pink colored wool that the groom had sent her. The groom wore
cloth shoes, a white shirt and nylon-gabardine trousers.
The local custom was to get married in the morning. Riding
on bikes, carrying one-meter-tall plastic statues of Chairman
Mao and large picture frames, several of the couple's Beijing
friends came to join in the celebration. During the ceremony,
the bride and groom exchanged Mao badges--tokens of their
enduring affection. The wedding banquet cost 50 yuan. There
was stewed pork with turnips and Chinese cabbage. Every person
gave his/her share of the expenses as a wedding present.
70s weddings were particularly frugal affairs. Grain, non-staple
food and cigarettes were all bought with coupons. The food
coupons needed for the wedding had to be saved from the quotas
for each family member. The most tiring thing in preparation
for a wedding was purchase of furniture. On receiving the
marriage certificate, a couple was given coupons for cupboards,
bed and chairs. They then had to go to furniture stores and
stand in long queues to buy the furniture.
The 80s-90s: Constantly Changing Wedding Customs
In
the late 1980s, with the improvement of people's living standards,
gradual changes took place in wedding customs. In 1981, in
response to the call of the Central Committee of the Communist
Youth League of China for young people to have "civilized,
thrifty and lively weddings", local branches of the CYLC
took an active part in creating and holding new forms of weddings.
These included collective weddings, tea-party weddings and
honeymoon trip weddings, dinner weddings, weddings with League
day activities and outdoor weddings. The cadres and Party
members in some places related the change in wedding ceremonies
to the changes in the style of the Communist Party.
April 39, 1989 was Li Qing's birthday and also her wedding
day. At that time, permed hair was in vogue. Li Qing spent
more than 30 yuan for a permanent wave. Before the wedding,
she and her fianc¦ had a colored photo taken in wedding
clothes. Just half a year before, there were only black and
white photos with artificial colors. Having the pictures taken
cost them about 100 yuan.
On the wedding day, a banquet was held in a restaurant. At
that time, to eat in restaurant was difficult to manage unless
the couple had "guan xi" or connections.
The gifts ranged from framed pictures, tea sets, drinking
utensils to woolen blankets and quartz clocks. Newly-weds
enjoyed 15 days¯ holiday for a honeymoon. The tourist
areas from Huangshan Mountain to Suzhou and Hangzhou were
known as "honeymooner trails", at the time.
In the 1990s, weddings began to become ceremonious again.
Luxurious cars were required to pick up
the bride, a banquet in a grand restaurant was preferred and
a set of high quality photos in wedding clothes could not
be omitted. The days chosen for weddings also changed; many
people chose auspicious days. On October 14, 1990, there were
a surprisingly great number of weddings in Beijing. This particular
date had been chosen because it contained two even numbers
(10 and 14) and so numerically represented the character and
good luck sign of weddings:"double happiness". According
to the solar calendar the date was August 26th--which also
contains two even numbers (8 and 26). The year 1990 was an
even number too, so all in all this was a lucky day to get
married!
Young people also went for the novel wedding. There were weddings
in the air--with the couple both parachuting to the ground;
the traditional wedding--with the couple wearing traditional
Chinese clothes and the bride being taken to the groom's home
in a rickshaw. There were even group weddings held on the
Great Wall! On January 1, 2000, 200 couples from the 56 nationalities
in China held a millennium wedding together in Beijing. |